-philia - 
1.Tendency toward. ex. hemophilia. 
2. Abnormal attraction to.  ex. necrophilia. 
From the Greek, meaning "love of".  In the case of 'necrophilia', "love of death".
-philiac -
1. One that has a tendency towards
2. One that has the abnormal attraction to

-phobia - 
1. A persistent, abnormal, and irrational fear of a specific thing or situation that compels one to avoid it, despite the awareness and reassurance that it is not dangerous. 
2. A strong fear, dislike, or aversion. 
-phobic - 
One that has fear of, as it relates to the above definition. 

-ism - 
A suffix indicating an act, a process, the result of an act or a process, a state; as, automasochism; also, a characteristic (as a theory, doctrine, idiom, etc.); as, baptism, galvanism, organism, hypnotism, socialism, sensualism, Anglicism.

-ist - 
1. One that performs a specified action: ex. lobbyist. 
2. One that produces, makes, operates, plays, or is connected with a specified thing: ex. novelist. 
3. A specialist in a specified art, science, or skill: ex. biologist.
4. An adherent or advocate of a specified doctrine, theory, or school of thought: ex. anarchist. 
5. One that is characterized by a specified trait or quality: ex. menophilist. 

-ous - 
An adjective suffix meaning full of, abounding in, having, possessing the qualities of, like; as in gracious, abounding in grace; arduous, full of ardor.

-sis -
A condition of.  ex. acmegenesis: acme=height of  genesis=creation, beginning: orgasm

auto-
This is actually a prefix and it can be confusing because in sexual terms it means "self" yet the word implies less human intervention.  The following is from the AHD...
Word History: The words automatic pilot or automatic transmission bring to mind mechanical devices that operate with minimal human intervention. Yet the word automatic, which goes back to the Greek word automatos, “acting of one's own will, self-acting, of itself,” made up of two parts, auto-, “self,” and -matos, “willing,” is first recorded in English in 1748 with reference to motions of the body, such as the peristaltic action of the intestines: “The Motions are called automatic from their Resemblance to the Motions of Automata, or Machines, whose Principle of Motion is within themselves.” Although the writer had machines in mind, automatic could be used of living things, a use we still have. The association of automatic chiefly with machinery may represent one instance of many in which we have come to see the world in mechanical terms.
 

Basophilia - Arousal by standing erect or walking  (How does this work?)
Bathophilia - Arousal by depths   (Depths of what?)
Belonephilia - Arousal from using of needles.
Biastophilia - Arousal when sexually assaulting an unwilling victim.  (Isn't this the same as Raptophilia?)

Carpophilia - Arousal by sensual feeding of fruits
Catheterophilia - Arousal from the use of catheters
Choreophilia - Arousal from dancing
Chrematistophilia - Arousal from either paying for sex or from being robbed
Coprophillia - Arousal towards fecal matter, giving or receiving

Dacryphilia - Arousal in seeing tears in the eyes of their partner
Dermaphilia - Arousal from skin color, texture, scent appearance 
Doraphilia - Arousal to fur or skin (usually leather)
Dysmorphophilia - Arousal from physically impaired partners

Electrophilia - Arousal from electrical stimulation 
Emetophilia - Arousal from vomit or vomiting
Endytophilia - Arousal to preferring a sex partner to be clothed rather than naked during sex. 
Entomophilia - Arousal by insects and its use in sex play  (See Formicophilia)

Flatuphilia - Arousal from others passing gas
Formicophilia - Arousal involving insects crawling on the body  (How is this different from Entomophilia?)

Gerontophilia - Arousal from people who are significantly older.
Gynemimetophilia - Arousal to a male who is impersonating a female or had a sex change

Harmatophilia - Arousal from mistake or from breaking rules. 
Harpaxophilia - Arousal from being robbed.
Hebephilia - Arousal to teenagers. 
Hodophilia - Arousal from travelling to new or strange places. 
Homilophilia - Arousal from giving or receiving a sermon or speech. 
Hydrophilia - Arousal by water
Hygrophilia - Arousal from contact with body secretions (tears, salvia etc.) 
Hyphephilia - Arousal from touching (certain) fabrics.
Hypoxyphilia - Arousal to sexual asphyxia   (Isn't this the same as Asphyxiaphilia?)

Klismaphilia - Arousal from having an enema.

Lactaphilia - Arousal from lactating breasts.

Maieusiophilia - Arousal from pregnant women
Mammagymnophilia - Arousal from female breasts
Moriaphilia - Arousal from telling sexual jokes 
Melcryptovestimentaphilia - Arousal to women's black underwear  (What about red?)
Merinthophilia - Arousal from being bound
Mysophilia - Arousal from handling soiled underwear or foul odors.

Nanophilia - Attraction to short people
Naphephilia - Arousal from touching or being touched
Narratophilia - Arousal from telling sex related stories, poems, jokes etc
Nasophilia - Arousal from kissing, sucking, touching or looking at another's nose
Necrophilia - Arousal toward the dead
     (Necrochlesis - Sex with a corpse) 
     (Lagnonector - A person that kills in order to have sex with the corpse)
Neophilia - Arousal from novelty
Nepiophilia - Arousal toward an infant of the opposite sex
Normophilia - Arousal by acts considered normal  (If it's normal how can it be a paraphilia?)
Nosophilia - Arousal from a partner terminal illness
Nymphophilia - Arousal toward female adolescents.

Ochlophilia - Arousal from biting
Odontophilia - Arousal from teeth
Oculophilia - Arousal from eyeballs

Paedophilia - Arousal to children
Pecattiphilia – Arousal from stealing or committing a sin 
Pediophilia – Arousal from dolls 
Phallolalia - Arousal achieved by talking about the penis 
Phallophilia - Aroused by a large penis 
Phobophilia - Arousal from Fear 
Phygephilia - Arousal from flight (as in running away or escape)
Pictophilia - Arousal from pictures that are of sexual nature
Podophilia - Arousal from feet
Polyiterophilia - Arousal only after having sex with a series of partners
Pubephilia - Arousal from pubic hair 
Pygophilia - Arousal from touching, playing with or seeing another's buttocks
Pyrophilia - Arousal from fire

Raptophilia - Arousal from raping a victim.   (Isn't this the same as Biastophilia?) 
Rhabdophilia - Arousal from being flogged, beaten or caned.

Scatophilia -  Arousal from sexual conversations with strangers (in person or on the phone)
Scoptophilia - Arousal from looking at other people having sex
Siderodromophilia - Arousal from either viewing or riding upon trains
Sitophilia - Arousal by the use of food for sexual purposes
Somnophilia - Arousal toward sleeping people
Spectrophilia – Arousal to supernatural spirits or image in a mirror
Stigmatophilia – Arousal to body modifications arousing (tattoos, piercings, etc.)
Symphorophilia - Arousal from planning/causing a public disaster

Timophilia - Arousal from gold or wealth or power
Transvestophilia - Arousal from cross dressing 
Traumaphilia - Arousal from wounds or trauma
Trichophilia – Arousal to hair
Tripsolagnophilia - Arousal by being massaged

Urophilia - Arousal from contact with urine.

Vicarphilia - Arousal from other peoples sexual experiences
Vomerophilia -  Arousal to the act of vomiting 

Xenophilia - Arousal by being with strangers

Zoophilia -  Arousal toward animals 

Acmegenesis - Orgasm 
Acomoclitic - Preference for hairless genitals 
Androgynous - Having female and male characteristics in one 
Anilingus - Oral stimulation of the anus for sexual pleasure 
Anthropophagy - Sexual gratification from consumption of human flesh 
Acomoclitic - A preference for hairless genitals. 
Actirasty - Arousal from exposure to the suns rays. 
Adolescentilism - Playing the role of an adolescent. 
Aischrolgia - The expression of obscenities. 
Algolagnia - Both Masochism and Sadism. 
Allopellia - Orgasm from watching others have sex. 
Allorgasmia - The need to fantasise about a more desirable partner in order to orgasm. 
Alvinolagnia - Stomach fetish. 
Ambisextrous - Attractive to both sexes. 
Amelotasis - Attraction to someone who has lost a limb. 
Amomaxia - Sex in a parked car. 
Amychesis - The act of scratching a partner during sex. 
Anaclitism - Sexual enjoyment arising from activities, or being exposed to objects, normally associated with childhood (e.g. toilet training, breast sucking, playing with dolls). 
Anolinctus - The act of licking the anus of another. 
Anolingus - The act of inserting the tongue into the anus of another (as opposed to just licking it). 
Anthropophagolagnia - Rape with cannibalism (usually after the rape). 
Anthropophagy - Cannibalism for sexual purposes. 
Automasochism - The act of inflicting pain or injuries on oneself as a way of causing sexual stimulation. 
Autophagy - The ingesting of one's own flesh (usually for sexual reasons). 
Axillism - Using the armpit for sex (as a substitute vagina). 

Barosmia - Arousal from smell 
Basoexia - Arousal from kissing 
Bestialsadism - Arousal from performing cruel acts to animals. 
Biiest - A female who has a fetish for female feet. 
Blastolagnia - A person aroused by young females. 
Botulinonia - Using a sausage as a dildo. 

Candalagnia - Sexual arousal of spouse by watching partner have sex with someone else 
Capnogalia - Arousal from watching others smoke 
Coprolalia - Sexual arousal from hearing obscene language 
Coprolagnia - Sexual arousal derived from eating excrement 
Coprophilous - To live in excrement 
Capnolagnia - Arousal from watching others smoke. 
Chezolagnia - Masturbating whilst defecating. 
Claustrophilia - Sexual arousal from being confined in small spaces e.g. cages, coffins or straight jackets.
Coitobalnism - Sexual activities whilst in the bath. 
Coitus A Cheval - Sex on a horse. 
Coitus A Unda - Sex in water. 
Coitus Interfermoris - Penetration between the thighs. Sometimes used as a form of birth control. 
Colobosis - Mutilation of the penis. 
Coprography - "To write with faeces". To write obscene graffiti, poems or stories. Arousal from obscene words. 
Coprophagy - The act of eating faeces. Quite a popular activity up until the 1700s. 
Corephallism - Having anal sex with a young girl. 

Dacylagnia - Sexual arousal from seeing tears in the eyes of a partner 
Dame de voyage - Dolls designed for sexual penetration 
Defecolagnia - Arousal from Defecating 
Defilement - Sexual arousal from seeing partner becoming dirty or wet 
Dacnolagnomania - A lust murder. 
Dasyproctic - With hairy buttocks. 
Defecolagbia - Arousal from defecating. 
Dippoldism - Sexual arousal from beating/chastising children. 
Doleros - Arousal from pain. 

Ecdyosis - Arousal from removal of clothing in front of others 
Ecouteurism - Listening to others having sex without their consent 

Erotophobia - Fear of sexual love 
Erotomania - Excessive sexual desires 
Ecorchement - Flagellation. 
Ecouteurism - Unintentional arousal from sounds. 
Erotographomania - Strong desire to write love letters or poetry. 

Flagellation - Sexual arousal by whipping or being whipped 

Galateism - Sexual attraction to statues 
Gamogenesis - Sexual reproduction 
Genuphallation - Insertion of penis between knees of a partner 
Gomphipothic - Arousal by teeth 
Graphelagnia - Arousal from graphic images depicting sexual themes 
Gregomulcia - Arousal from being fondled in crowded areas 
Gynandromorph - Individual which has both male and female characteristics 
Gomphipothic - Arousal from the sight of teeth. 
Gynelophilous - Arousal from the sight/touch of pubic hair. 

Hymenoclasis - Surgical defloration of a virgin 
Hypersexual - Excessive interest in sex 

Infantilism - Adult dressing as a young child for sex play 
Infibulation - Sexual pleasure from mutation of one's genitals 
Insufflation - The act of blowing air into a body cavity 
Iantronudia - The arousal that some people have when they expose themselves to doctors. 
Idrophrodisia - Arousal from perspiration. 
Inspectionism - Voyeurism. 
Irrumation - Fellatio. 

Juvenilism - Acting out the role of a Juvenile in sexual situation 
Jactitation - Excitement or arousal from bragging about their own sexual exploits. 

Kleptolagnia - Arousal by stealing for personal gratification 
Kleptolagnia - Arousal from stealing. 
Knismolagnia - Arousal from tickling. 

Lagnlalia - Discussion of objects used for sexual practices 
Lygerastia - Aroused by having sexual in total darkness 
Lagnonector - A person that kills in order to have sex with the corpse. 
Leptosadism - Mild sadism. 
Lygerastia - Being aroused only when in darkness. 

Macrogenitalism - Arousal from large genitals 
Menophilist - Arousal from menstruating women 
Mixoscopia - Sexual pleasure derived from seeing others having sex 
Mastix - A female sadist. 
Mastofact - Breast fetish. 
Mazoperosis - Mutilation of the breasts. 
Melolagnia - Arousal from music. 
Meretricium - A tax on prostitution. 
Menophilist - Arousal from menstruating women. 
Miscegenation - Sex or marriage between people of different races. 
Mixoscopy - The secret observation of a sex act. 
Mucophagy - The consuming of nasal mucus. 
Munchausen's syndrome - Arousal from opening a wound. 

Narcissism - Self love 
Necrochlesis - Sex with a female corpse 
Nomavalent - Arousal attained from strange places 
Necrosadism - Mutilation of corpses for sexual purposes. 
Nosolagnia - Arousal from knowing that ones partner has a terminal illness. 

Oculolictus - Arousal derived from licking a partner's eyes 
Odaxelangnia - Sexual gratification derived from biting on partner 
Osphresiolagnia - Arousal from foul odors 
Oculolinctus - The act of licking a persons eyeball for sexual arousal/fulfilment. 
Ondinisme - Arousal from urine. 
Ozolagnia - Arousal from odors. 

Partialism - Fetish 
Picquerism - Sexual gratification from repeated stabbings of another person 
Pluralism - Sexual gratification achieved by having sex with large groups 
Psycholagny - Orgasm attained from psychic or mental stimulation 
Pageism - Male submitting to a female. 
Paizogony - Petting. 
Pathicant - A minor who engages in anal sex with an adult. 
Penotherapy - Regulation of prostitutes a form of disease control.
Philemanmania - Compulsion to kiss. 
Philematology - The art of kissing. 
Phlebotomy - Blood letting. Often practiced for sexual purposes by Vampyres. 
Psychrocism - Arousal from cold, or, arousal from seeking another that is cold. 
Psychrotentiginous - Arousal from cold water. 
Pygmalionism - Attraction to manikins. 
Pyrolagnia - Sexual arousal form watching fire. 

Renifleur - One who is aroused by the smell of urine or used underwear 

Sadism - Sexual gratification by inflicting pain to partner 
Sapphosadism - Lesbian Sadism 
Scoptolagnia - Arousal from viewing sexually stimulating scenes 
Siphnianize - Anal Masturbation 
Sodomy - Anal copulation of one male with another 
Sororilagnia - Sex with one's own sister 
Sotadism - Anal sex 
Sthenolagnia - Arousal demonstration of strength or muscles 
Stupprator - Male aroused only by virgins 
Sacofricosis - The practice of cutting a hole in the pockets of trousers so that a person can masturbate (usually in public). 
Satyriasis - Male equivalent of nymphomania. 
Shunammitism - Contact (does not have to be physical) with young girls by old men to encourage or restore sexual vigor. 
Sthenolagnia - Arousal from a display of strength and/or the sight or muscles. 

Tachorgasmia - Premature ejaculation 
Tantalolagnia - Arousal from teasing 
Taphephilia - Arousal from being buried alive 
Thalpotentiginy - Arousal from heat 
Thlipsosis - Arousal from pinching partner 
Tithiolagnia - Having a orgasm derived from nursing 
Transsexualism - Excessive desire to become a member of the other sex 
Tantalolagnia - Arousal from teasing. 
Taphephilia - Arousal from being buried alive. 
Thalpotentiginy - Arousal from heat. 
Tragolimia - Desire for sex regardless of attraction to partner. 
Tripsolagnia - Arousal from having one's hair shampooed by another. 

Urolagnia - Sexual arousal involving urine or act of urination 
Urtication - The use of nettles to enhance sensation 
Urtication - The use of stinging plants to stimulate the skin. 

Vampirism - Arousal by consuming the blood of a partner 
Voyeurism - Arousal from viewing people in the nude or having sexual intercourse 
Vampirism - The drinking of blood/fetishism for blood. 
Vincilagnia - Arousal from bondage.