Consider your visit here an exploration.  Exploring a sexual fetish, exploring a bit of what brought you here to begin with, and exploring deep into my own feelings and experiences in order to find similarities and support for what you might be feeling.  I started this site for two main reasons.. the first is simply to meet others who have the same interest, compare fantasies, and make some friends along the way.  But the second reason, and perhaps the most important to me, is to help those of you who may have difficulty understanding what you are feeling. 

The list goes on... and if you fall into any of these categories or another one totally different, you are most assuredly NOT alone.  The point to remember is that while you're feelings are unique to yourself, they are not unique to the world.

Necrophilia, and somnophilia (love of someone sleeping), are scientifically classified as a "sexual deviations" or dysfunctions... but remember that is a clinical description and should not be taken out of context.  I consider myself a "fantasy" necrophiliac; that means I am NOT an obsessive necrophiliac in that having sex with a dead person is the only thing in the world I wish to do.   I am not so totally consumed by the thought that I want to have sex with corpse that I can't function "normally" (whatever "normal" is).  I have been married 25 years, have three kids... and I have had what some would consider "normal" sexual relations.  I function in the real world like anyone else and if we met on the street you would never know my unique interest from my appearance, in the same way I'd not know your fantasies by your appearance. 

As I mentioned on my opening site page we are indeed human and with that we have the God-given traits to reason.  To reason means we can differentiate cause and effect of our actions, or inactions, and we can establish social morays that contribute to the greater good with others of our own kind.  One by-product of all that reasoning is the feeling of guilt... the ability to measure our inability to somehow fit in to some real or perceived environment.  We can thank the societies we've put together and the religions that have spawned to condition us that we should feel guilty not just for our real life actions but also for what we thinkor feel in our minds.  And of course much of that guilt is targeted to things that might feel humanly good to do.. like having sex.  I mean, sex, or the act of reproduction, is the reason we as humans exist at all.  All living things must have a level of sex in order to procreate the species.  The problem is, nature made humans enjoy sex to ensure our species continues.  But because of our inherent differences in reasoning we all have differences in what we enjoy sexually.  And interestingly enough, it's those differences that also act as a natural measure to guard against over-procreation of our species.