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A Necrophilic Act Does Not A
Necrophiliac Make
(and you can quote
me on that)
Before I begin we really
need to center in on the proper
use of terminology.. even within the psyche community.
Necrophilia, in its basic interpretation, means ‘love of the dead’
which I presume the original term was used to define a psychic
condition as it applied to those who have sex with the dead. In
those days it was felt (as many do this day and age) that even a single
act of sex with the dead was a psychotic condition which needed
treatment. Now, when we talk about psychological terminology we
are generally using terms that describe a basic condition of a
‘troubled’ mind (‘troubled’ being relative to what a current society
regards as ‘normal’), which might simply be another way of classifying
someone who is obsessive to the point that they cannot experience a
quality of life. But in today’s usage of the term, necrophilia,
the meaning has gone from being simply a condition but rather
describing an event as well. Yet, there is a word, necrochlesis,
that allegedly has the specific meaning for the act of sex with a dead
person.
So, technically speaking,
my site would be more
accurately called, Rob’s Necrochlesis Fantasy, since I really
want no fantasy of being a true necrophiliac in the obsessive sense (I
do not obsess over thoughts of sex with the dead to a point where it
affects my quality of living) but rather to include in my somewhat
‘normal’ sex life an occasional dead person, or in the least, a living
person playing dead. If you’ve read the various stories on
my site of people who have engaged in sex with the dead at least once
in their lives there is not a one that could be classified as a true
necrophiliac in the psychological sense. All are simply a
collection of acts of… necrochlesis, if that’s the proper word to use.
(Author
Note: Over the last couple years I've been contacted by various people
about the actual word "necrochelsis", or my defined use of the word, as
being in doubt. Since
the word itself doesn't appear to be in anyone's dictionary I would
appreciate hearing from someone knowledgable enough to define this term
properly and/or provide another term.)
Even if you were to refer
to the psyche community’s
own bible, DSM-IV (American Psychiatric Association: Diagnostic and
Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), the definition of a
‘paraphilia’, of which necrophilia is one of many, reads, “sexual
impulse disorders characterized by intensely arousing, recurrent sexual
fantasies, urges and behaviors considered deviant with respect to
cultural norms and that produce clinically significant distress or
impairment in social, occupational or other important areas of
psychosocial functioning." This definition by no means
suggests that a given ‘act’ constitutes a problem condition but rather
that the condition exists if the subject suffers significant social
impairment or other psychosocial functioning.
But for some reason the term,
necrophilia, has come
to mean the condition and/or an event. State laws are even
sometimes written using ‘necrophilia’ as synonymous with ‘sex with the
dead under any condition’ (I wonder if it would be possible to offer as
a defense if you were caught performing such an act that indeed you
were not under the influence of ‘necrophilia’ at the time but simply
performing an act of ‘necrochlesis’ which is not defined under the
law?).
Well, the reason I bring all
this up is that the
R&R research is also fraught with this terminology usage issue and
it tends to cloud certain meanings as they try and interpret their
findings. For example, R&R classified their sample research
group into two broad groups (page 154)… genuine necrophilia and
pseudonecrophilia. Well, the ‘genuine’ labeled group makes some
sense… the examples cited tend to support necrophilia in the
traditional sense. But what’s this
‘pseudonecrophilia’? The 37 year old guy shot his
girlfriend allegedly by accident, then in the process of trying to dump
her body he had anal sex with her, which up until that point he never
had any interest in necrophilia (maybe R&R never heard of the term,
necrochlesis; I never did until just recently myself and I am
suspect as to its origin anyway.. but it’s a needed label). So I
am suggesting that this classification need not even be in this
research as it has nothing to do with the topic of necrophilia as a
condition… which presumably this entire report is trying to
evaluate. I think you get my drift.
Not too long ago I
discovered this little tidbit at www.world-sex-records.com.
Necrophilia
was a
word coined in 1860 by Dr. Guislain to define a category of "insane
destroyers." In 1901 Epaulard suggested that anyone who loved corpses,
platonically or not, should be called a "necrophile." The word
necrophagy was invented in 1875 by W. A. F. Browne who reckoned it an
instance of cannibalism without any erotic connotations. Epaulard was
sure however that it had erotic significance. The necrophage is taken
as different from the cannibal inasmuch as the latter chooses the man
he is going to eat while the victim is still alive. Necrosadism was a
term invented by Epaulard in 1901 to designate those who mutilated
corpses. The sadism in a case of this sort is only apparent as the
victim can experience no pain. The corpse fulfills the purpose of a
fetish. (O. Volta, "The Vampire").
I have no idea
how
accurate this is nor could I find anything on who “Epaulard” is,
although R&R use him as a reference (page 162, #23). The
other fellow, “Dr. Guislain”, does seem to have some psychiatric
history in Belgium.
My
Overview
Okay, let’s start at the beginning. In general
I think the study was a fine study for what it was intended to study...
which was simply a statistical review of a number of past published and
non-published case studies for trends, occurrences, and personal
demographics as it relates to necrophilia. Of course the idea was
to shed some light on necrophilia itself and provide some measure of
statistical data to help in supporting future treatment to those
obsessed with it. While this study is remarkably taken as one
with definitive results by many professionals, students, and armchair
researchers when R&R themselves point out the study’s limitations
fairly well is rather amazing in itself. I think much of the
willingness to accept this study is because there is so little
available on necrophilia and it’s much easier to acknowledge
contemporary research than working your own given the social taboo of
the subject matter.
The
Introduction
A bland yet concise and very broad description of
necrophilia as an act, or event, performed through the ages for various
reasons. R&R’s goal, “..to gain a more thorough
understanding of necrophilia by examining the largest possible sample.”
From that statement then I presume we are exploring necrophilia as a
condition? As I’ve mentioned earlier, adequate application of the
term would lessen the confusion and certainly provide more focus to the
problem. Events occur but a condition needs attention.
Methods
I found this section (page 154) to be the crux of this
entire study; the sampling by which all this data is based and
presumably new treatments studied . R&R did a good job, in my
opinion, listing the shortcomings of the sampling. In one way one
wonders why even do the study when the variables were so…
variable. But in light of pioneering and breaking frontiers in
tackling new psychiatric realms someone had to start somewhere and this
was a good study for that. The key drawback, and it’s a major one
in my opinion, is what R&R indicates and also inserts a caveat of
over-interpretation.
“The data were aggregated from several decades, many
countries, and various languages. There were great variations in
the reporting methods. Further, the problems of a low base rate
and gaps in the data enhance the risk of over-interpretation.”
Again, one wonders given that significant drawback why even do the
study. But I don’t think R&R actually thought their research
would be as widely accepted as it seems to be.
What’s important to
understand that the research does
shed light on is that obsessive necrophilia can originate, not only
from traditional self-esteem-robbing child abuse elements like sexual
or emotional abuse, but also from socio-economic conditions, existing
cultural and religious mores, and being raised in such
environments. For example, if you browse through the reference
pages (161-163) you will note that many of the case studies are from
other countries with obvious different cultures at a wide variety of
historical dates, each reflecting a social cycle of the times.
Now, add to those variables the interpretation of the various case
study researchers/psyche professionals of the time… reflecting times or
cultures of lesser understanding and less scientific objectivity… you
can see the limitations of the sample.
Classification
As I’ve indicated above, of the two major groups
R&R used, genuine and pseudo-necrophilia, it was the latter that
seemed to muddy the study regarding the terminology. If anything
that group should be called “genuine necrochlesis” which might be a
valid group in the statistical research of this specific sampling but
has no importance to the study results in regards to true necrophilia.
The classification of
‘genuine necrophiles’ into the
three sub-categories seems applicable enough although the example case
provided under “necrophilic fantasy” (page 155) is totally not
appropriate as a true necrophilic fantasy. R&R themselves
state in the example that, “Although he denied any actual sexual
contact with the corpses, he had become sexually excited when he cut
them up.” Okay, so where’s the necrophilia? If anything
it’s necrosadism or a form of necro-cannibalism. I would think in
general those with obsessive necrophilic fantasies would be those who
have a more direct fantasy of sex with a corpse.
In
any event, these three necrophile classifications are probably
the most often quoted aspect of this research: Necrophilic Homicide, Regular Necrophilia,
and Necrophilic
Fantasy. But it's also important to note that these are
the categories that R&R used based on assimilating their case data
as trends were revealed. These categories are NOT indicated by
these gentlemen as being defining categories for all of contempory
necrophilia cases in general. Although, I would think that these
classifications are about as accurate as any thus far in attempting to
classify a necrophilic obession. So then why am I making an
issue? Well, R&R formed no theories or conclusions about
necrophilia in general much less using any contemporary case studies to
presume that these categories might have any relevence at all outside
of this singular study (using aged and diversely interprative
cases). If you read it again you will see that they state in the
first sentence that, "We classified
the genuine necrophiles into three groups, based on the nature of their
acts with corpses." My issue is that I continually read
other authors quoting these R&R groupings with something like, "According to Rosman & Resnick
necrophiles are classified into three categories." and this is
incorrect quoting. R&R used these classifications for this
research data only.
Characteristics
of the Sample
If anything I think the age and gender of the
subjects, the age and gender of the corpses, and sorting into the three
categories indicated above is worth notable attention in suggesting a
trend. Occupational access to corpses is an interesting
measurement but by itself it doesn’t indicate if with the sample cases
access itself was the cause of the necrophilia condition or the goal of
a person already with the condition.
Psychopathology
Again, I think it’s to R&R’s credit in
indicating that while they made every attempt to clinically catagorize
the cases according to DSM-III-R that there is a “notorious
unreliability of diagnostic labels from country to country and decade
to decade”. This should be very compelling to researchers
bent on using this study as gospel research. This continues to be
an overriding variable in the sampling used.
Acquisition
of Corpses
While this sample doesn’t reflect this I feel there
are really two real life categories here. The first being those
with occupational access as the study states, but also a ‘passive
access’ as well. As you can read from my site there are many
stories of someone outside the realm of normal access to dead bodies
engaging in sex with a corpse. Boyfriends/girlfriends of
morticians, breaking into a funeral home, rescue workers, natural death
in the home or hospital, etc., all form a sizable real life category.
Specific Act and Fantasies
I am not sure the measurement of specific acts or
fantasies means a whole lot in the end result. Besides, I think
we are talking apples and oranges here anyway. The chart (page
159) illustrates the specific attention area on the dead body given to
the corpse by the subject which is a rather ‘normal’ list of things
anyone might to during normal sex. But mutilation and necrophagia
are elements that are unique all to themselves. In addition, you
could also add to that ‘body positioning’, ‘body tossing’ (simply to
get aroused seeing it flop around), etc. The fixation list could
be quite endless but nonetheless not part of that found in typical
sexual activity.
Discussion
It certainly sounds like R&R were on the right
track in surmising their sampling reflected very little reason to
suggest that IQ has a role in being a necrophile although I have to
think that in decades past, before the days of IQ measurement, a
psychotic was generally assumed to be an idiot. So I would
imagine much of the sampling was biased in this measurement.
Regarding the use of alcohol or other mind-altering substances, it
would appear that in those cases where it was an issue it simply acted
as a catalyst to breaking down objective thinking and inhibitions.
One consistent element in
their findings is that
indeed necrophiles, like any other paraphilia, generally have more than
one motive for their actions. We as humans engage in sex but we
all prefer it in different ways. Paraphilias are no different.
Pschodynamic
Themes
Oh, boy.. this section I have some real issues with
regarding what R&R ‘postulates’ as leading to necrophilia.
It’s one thing to present statistical findings based on a given
sampling and admit that the sampling has extraordinary variables, but
to begin to develop hypotheses or theories or postulates from that data
seems a bit outlandish to say the least. Let’s take this one at a
time.
R&R states,
“1. The necrophile develops poor self-esteem, perhaps
due in part to significant loss; “
Here we go with the terminology again. First off, a
necrophile is a person with a condition and as such the condition is
the result of some outside influence. If anything, the necrophile
already has poor self-esteem… he’s not developing it. What might
have been said would be, “Necrophiles generally suffer from poor
self-esteem”. Also, what does “due to significant loss”
mean? Loss of what? This isn’t explained. I would
like to think they mean their poor self-esteem is reflective of a loss
of certain elements supporting their social acceptance, an emotional
loss due to past emotional or physical trauma, or a genetic abnormality
in the brain… all manifesting into some level of depression.
Continuing on…
Both
sub-elements,
(a) and (b), are simply part of a greater list of reasons that go
beyond just simple ‘fear’ of women. In fact, in spite of the fact
that the numbers would indicate men are more predisposed to be
necrophiles than women do we surmise by this logic that women
necrophiles only have a sexual ‘fear’ of men as well? Common
sense would suggest otherwise. We do know that the motivations
for women to have sex in general is vastly different that the
motivations for men. There’s no reason to suspect that all
necrophiles, regardless of gender, operate from the same necrophilia
handbook.
Treatment
I think this is a good summation. R&R’s 6
point diagnostic/treatment steps seems applicable. As with
anything to do with the psychic mind each and every case is different
to the individual. To understand why a person has been driven to
a given paraphilia is more important than the paraphilia itself when
developing treatment. The goal is not to stop the obsessive
individual from wanting to have sex with a corpse but rather explore
the reasons way they got there and treat from there.
My Epilog
As R&R indicates, obsessive necrophilia
(redundent, I know, but I am trying to deal with the label thing for
clarity) is a very rare and poorly understood paraphilia (this does not
mean to imply that the sexual fantasies or real life occurances of sex
with the dead are rare by any means). Much of it is, in fact, due
to the few reported cases. While it’s true in most states that
it’s illegal to engage in sex with a corpse few are ever exposed when
caught simply due to the public ramifications (such as bad public
relations and potential lawsuits) falling on the facility who discovers
such a perpetrator. Also, sex with a corpse is a very private
affair involving only one person, so being discovered in the act is
very rare. For the most part if people are discovered they are
simply fired and the event quickly forgotten. Also, trying
to gather outside data on necrophilia, or occurrences of necrochlesis,
as an interest is next to impossible (ie., surveys of morticians,
morgue attendants, etc.).
This R&R
study is NOT the end all final definitive study of necrophilia in
spite of what researchers might like to bestow upon it. They say
it very well in their last sentence… “We hope that this review will
help future investigators to gather sufficient data to analyze cases of
necrophilia prospectively.”
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