 I think for the most part we
can all agree that sexual fantasies *generally* follow the traditional
human qualities of the man being dominant in some way and the woman
being submissive in some way. Of course there are always
exceptions to every rule... take gays or bi-sexuals for example, who by
nature of their own preferences, can have these same fantasies... and
it's just as "normal". Point being, the partner is irrelavent
even if same gender. But one usually is dominant and one
submissive. Regarding necro, by far the
mainstream female interests seem to be in the area of fantasy "death"
(their own) with subsequent sex or corpse abuse by another guy (or
girl). In most cases the act of being "killed" while having sex
(called "snuff") is the true orgasmic height of the event, any sex
after death being secondary. But there are some girls I've met on
the Net who do enjoy "playing" dead or unconscious for their boy
friends or spouses. To them the goal is to achieve a sexual high
by being as limp as possible and containing all outward movement...
somehow transferring their intense orgasm inward.
  Much
like in real life, us guys
remain the "performers"... the one's doing the sexual act to the
woman. There is an interesting irony to the true sexual desires
of males in general. While many guys would view necro as some
perverse interest, those same guys would probably take interest in
getting some girl drunk into unconsciousness at a bar and having sex
with her. Is that not a form or necro, or certainly in the least,
sleepysex? Those date-rape drugs, Rohypnol and GHB, are pretty
popular right now. Isn't that about knocking out some girl
to have sex? One girl put it quite well to me one day.. she said
if a guy was left alone in a room with a beautiful dead or unconscious
girl that he was guaranteed to take advantage of the situation.
She went on to add that was how she got her real life fantasy of
sleepysex without telling her boyfriends what her fantasies really
were. She would fain falling unconscious after so-many drinks as
she would begin a sexual encounter (thus ensuring the feeling of
consent to the guy). Both her and the guy walked away
happy. My point is to all this that while there may be the facade
of being "normal" sexually for a guy... deep down, well... we are all
guys.  I
mentioned sleepysex before. This is another rather
popular form of necro, yet most into sleepysex may not agree. It
usually involves the girl being put to sleep through hypnotism,
chloroforming, getting them drunk, etc. Guys typically like to
feel the struggle and helplessness of the girl succumbing to the
effects of being put unconscious. This seems to be a more popular
interest with the younger folks and, as I metnioned earlier, not an
uncommon interest for teenage girls. Perhaps for most this is
simply an initial fantasy until something more "complex" develops as
time and experience in life evolves. Girls into this usually like
the feeling of being helpless and being carried and positioned and
handled in various ways. Guys seem to like the actual act of
rendering them unconcious. More on Sleepysex in Section 6
 Another
interesting necro
spin-off is an interest in crime scene victims. It
doesn't really
involve a direct sexual encounter, although imagining yourself as the
victim could include the elements of a crime such as rape.
Typically folks interested in the old detective magazines are into this
interest. I think the guys are more interested from a more necro
slant looking at female crime scene pictures and somehow imagining
themselves as the killers, or even as the morgue attendents who will
recieve the body. But I've found many women who envision
themselves laying there along the side of the road, naked and violated,
waiting to be found. I think to them it's the excitement and
empathy of what the victim must have gone through in her final
moments... of being strangled, raped, sodomized, orally abused, etc.,
before and/or after death, then being tossed away; discarded like
garbage.
  
   
 So you can see by now that necrophilia can be a part of many sexual interests... and that there are also many different interests that spin-off from necrophilia, limited only by one's imagination.
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