Where You Make Play Can Make A
Difference
For those
of you out there who engage in
sex it's no mystery that many times simply a change in location
can
enhance any sexual encounter. Location can mean anything; from
moving from the bed to the floor to doing it at your place of business
in the utility room adjacent to your bosses office. Location can
set the ambience and mood for the encounter as well as even adding to
the overall thrill of chance discovery. Location can be daring
and it can be passive and personal. But.. not all people respond
well to changes in location. Some folks prefer the staying in the
bed during sex.. while others might have an affinity for trying out new
and daring locations in the real world. It's all a matter of
personal preference and like all things sexual we have discussed on
this site thus far, it's all about communicating with your partner your
sexual likes and dislikes. Also, your choice of location for
sexual romance does not necessarily mean it's part of some more lavish
role playing experience. For example, if you are female
just deciding to do the deed in the backyard doesn't necessarily mean
you want to role play being a woman sexually assaulted on her way
taking out the trash to the alley and being chased around the yard
screaming.
Those into the death
fetishes like necrophilia and vampirism tend to favor cemetery
locations. There's much to be said for making love on top of the
grave of someone special... perhaps a young person who has died.. a
grave of a dead friend. Years ago I was engaged in serious chat
with a young mother from Charleston, SC, who wanted me to go there and
meet her for a romantic encounter inside the abandoned mausoleum of a
dead Civil War general (who's remains had been removed sometime before
to some other internment location). I have also chatted with many
couples, married and single, who have purchased their own caskets
(that's very easy to do these days). One couple even had a modern
metal casket that was double-wide for two people. Another person
I chatted with for a couple years was the wife of a mortician in
Canada. They often had sex in a casket together, after he
'prepared' her body on the same table he did the embalmings. If
you are handy with tools, you can even purchase wooden casket plans
over the net for building your own contemporary wood casket or one of
those erotic 19th century six-sided coffins. One of the
enhancements to sexual play is the effective use of props, like
caskets, candles, costumes, etc. Let your imagination run wild.
Here's a few more location
ideas I've heard of. One rural couple likes to play her
body being found hanging half out of a wrecked car (an old car on their
property on a dirt access road) and her husband coming up upon her
body.. after which he engages in appropriate sexual pleasure with this
'acccident victim'. Of course, there's always the paintball
chase. To those who have a fantasy of being shot nothing else can
be more convicining than a paintball stinging the flesh as it explodes
blood red paint. You can do the hunter/prey scenario in the
woods... an assassin hidden in the home... and if you are self-employed
or have after hours access to your place of work, that also provides a
great location for sexual play. How about camping or canoeing or
some other remote nature activity where you can use water to 'drown'
your partner as you have sex with them... or find them drowned and
washed up on shore.. and you drag the 'corpse' into the bushes for oral
gratification. While elevators and public places might enhance
sex with the fear of discovery, there's a whole world of locations that
can set the mood in other ways.
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